November 2011
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Flirt Via SMS
It’s not always easy to mean what you say through text messages. But here’s the secret. You can always get your point across with just a simple one-liner text message. Wanna know how? Here are messages to flirt-text that guy you’re into. Of course, these are applicable when you know the guy personally beyond just being acquaintances. Yes, these days everything is possible with...
October 2011
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He’s probably into you if he notices it whenever you’re feeling down, then says the funniest thing to make you laugh.
Anonymous asked: I'm dating this guy, we're not officially a couple but he has this bad boy reputation. He drinks and he smokes. It's not something that I'm used to. How do I deal with a bad boy?
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He’s probably not into you if he doesn’t call or text or IM you within the next twenty four hours after your date.
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He’s probably into you if he loves playing with your hair, while sitting in silence beside you.
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Let's Talk About Age
Thanks to the anonymous question sent to me during the previous post, I was given an inspiration for this post. This time, let’s talk about relationships involving people with big age differences. We’ll just talk about one situation - the one where the guy is older. Why that situation? Because I can relate to that. I’ve dated older guys before but I never had any experience...
Anonymous asked: hi. i'm a college student & i'm dating this guy who's already working. he's 6 years older than me. things are going great until he introduced me to his friends. it's like his friends don't take me seriously. i feel so out of place. & after introducing me to his friends, he never took me out on another night out with them. what's up with that? & what...
July 2011
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Men and Make-Up
When asked for their thoughts regarding make-up on girls, most guys say that they prefer minimal or no make-up at all. But guys also say that the first thing they notice when seeing a girl for the first time is their physical appearance. This makes it all so confusing.
Actually, it’s not that confusing. What guys really like is the natural look, also known as the “no make-up”...
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He’s probably into you if he doesn’t reply to your text message in the middle of the night, and instead calls you up to ask if you’re okay and if you need someone to talk to. Sweet.
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The Do's and Don't's of Flirting
Do maintain eye contact. You know the drill, ladies, if you’ve been reading my previous entries. Try to catch his eye, and then look away. You build mystery around yourself that way.
Don’t ogle at him. You will only look like a total fool and it will definitely freak him out.
Do angle your body towards him when talking. You will seem more approachable and friendly that way.
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The Ultimate Date Outfit Guide
So you and this guy are going on a date. Oh, joy! But you don’t know what to wear and you really want to make a good impression! No need to fret. Here’s the ultimate guide on what to wear on that date.
The Date: Catching a Flick at the Cinema What to Wear: Wear something cool and relaxed, basically anything that feels comfortable for you. Like a nice blouse, jeans, and your favorite...
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He’s probably not into you if he calls you “dude”.
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Decode the Dude: His Hang-Outs
Hi, ladies. Did you miss me? Sorry, if it took a while for me to post something again. I was busy with work and all that.
It’s generally easy to tell the personality of a person based on the little things such as the stuff he does, how he dresses himself, etcetera, etcetera. And as the title suggests, you can determine a guy’s personality based on where he usually hang-outs. Now,...
June 2011
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He’s probably into you if he takes the time to reply to your Globe number using his Smart number, just because you sent him a message saying “hi” in his Globe number.
Get it?
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The Do's and Don't's of being "One-of-the-Boys"
I’m not here just to teach you how to flirt or how to deal with romantic relationships. I can say that I’m also kind of an expert when it comes to platonic relationships with guys. I must admit, I’m the type of girl who, despite my girly-girl personality, is also considered as “one-of-the-boys”. Come to think of it, guys make great friends because they’re really...
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Dudes and Diets
When out for dinner, will you order a bowl of veggie salad or will you go for steak and rice? Hmm. Believe it or not, guys don’t really dig stick-thin girls. Guys love seeing a girl get down and dirty with huge hamburger. With proper table manners, of course. It won’t really turn them off because guys love a girl with a healthy appetite. So stop starving yourself to death if you think...
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What Really Turns Him Off
Turn-offs really varies from guy to guy. But there are things in general that will make him run off in the opposite direction if he sees these things in a girl. So what are those?
Poor hygiene. I’ve been saying this over and over again. Practice proper hygiene, ladies. You don’t have to be decked out in the latest fashion. You can be in the simplest clothes and still look good as long...
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He’s probably not into you if he has used every excuse in the book just so he could not hang-out with you. Because guys would rather make up a lame excuse than be honest with you.
Anonymous asked: hi there. i have a problem. this guy and i are constantly texting and chatting. most of the time, he's sweet to me. i don't know what's up. i don't know if he likes me or he's just being friendly. help please?
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How To Flirt At Work
So in one of my previous posts, I taught you the tricks of flirting in class. Now, this post is for those working girls out there. Oh my gosh, this is so sneaky, it’s almost illegal. Haha. Okay, so this only applies when the person you intend to flirt with is not your friend. Just a colleague, okay? Here goes.
The easiest way to flirt with someone at work is by using the old technique which...
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How To Flirt In Class
This only works if he’s sitting beside you or in front of you. A subtle way of flirting with him without disrupting the class is by using body language. First, you have to get his attention. Do this by slowly crossing your legs. When he finally notices you, look at him in the eyes and smile just a little. Then drop your gaze after a second or two. That’s it. You don’t even have...
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He’s probably into you if he it’s almost impossible for him to construct a simple sentence without blushing whenever you’re talking to him.
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How To Deal With Jealousy Issues
Let’s talk about jealousy first. Admit it, girls are more likely to feel jealous than guys. Or rather, girls are more likely to show that they’re jealous than guys. This is because girls are more in touch with their emotions. Both girls and guys can feel insecure of someone from the same gender. But girls have this tendency to not be discreet about it. Plus, most guys, if not all, have...
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How to Flirt at a Party
After you’ve learned the basics of flirting, now it’s time to apply them to different situations. This is the first situation: A Party. Now, let me tell you this first. You cannot flirt at your own party because that’s just rude. If you’re the host, it’s your obligation to roam around and mingle with everyone. Okay? And now, here’s how to flirt at a party.
Be...
May 2011
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Decode the Dude: When He Likes and Loves
It’s hard to read the opposite sex’s mind. So what exactly goes on in his mind when he likes a girl? Here’s the answer to that.
Stage 1: He’s confused yet whether he likes you or not. Sure, he notices you and your smile and your other physical attributes. Sometimes, you would catch him staring one second and then dropping his gaze on the next. Oh, and no one knows about...
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He’s probably into you if he invites you to go on a casual night out with him and his friends. Because even if he stresses that it’s something casual, the fact that his friends are going too makes it not casual at all. And yes, his real motive is for his friends to check you out and see if they approve of you.
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Decode the Dude: His Ideal Girl
Every guy fantasizes about a certain girl, a.k.a. The Girl of His Dreams. This girl is hot and smart, has an awesome personality, and absolutely perfect. Which does not totally exist. Because nobody’s perfect. Guys realized this as well. You might not believe this but guys have already accepted the fact that his fantasy girl will just remain, well, a fantasy.
So forget about being just like...
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What He Looks for in a Potential Girlfriend
Every guy has an ideal girl but there are things that most, if not all, guys would always want in a girl. And here they are.
A guy wants a girl who is confident with herself. He wants a girl who embraces her imperfections, and flaunts what she has. He wants a girl who doesn’t need to be constantly reassured that she is beautiful because she already knows that she is. But no, she’s not...
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He’s probably not into you if he confides in you about almost everything, especially about the girl he supposedly likes. You see, guys rarely make an effort to make girls jealous on purpose.
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He’s probably into you if he calls you up in the middle of the night just to talk about nonsense stuff.
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He’s probably into you if he doesn’t have a Tumblr account but he still takes time to view your blog. And you’re sure that he does that because one of friends told you about it.
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He’s probably not into you if the only time he remembers you is when he needs help with his homework.
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Decode the Dude: His Silence
The situation: You are talking non-stop and you just gave him a long winded speech about how your day went, in complete detail. You complained about school or work, and every negative emotion that you felt that day. Then all he gives you is this blank stare and a half-nod. And maybe even a scowl.
The real deal: He probably had a rough day himself that he’s not in the mood to talk....
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He’s probably not into you if he’s flirting with you. And with every other girl he knows. He’s might just be a player.
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The Do's and Don't's of Semi-Stalking
Yes, there is such a thing as “semi-stalking”. I invented it. I call it as such because it doesn’t mean you have to actually stalk him. Still don’t get what I mean? Here are a few pointers.
Do keep everything in moderation. Everything can be good as long as done in moderation. Yes, even stalking.
Don’t follow him around. That’s just creepy. You don’t...
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Best and Worst Relationship Matches for Every...
Girls, here’s a fun entry for you. I got this from another blog that I was browsing a while ago. Check if you and your guy are an ideal match. If you’re single, check which signs you are most compatible with. Guys, you can check this out too. These Zodiac matches are applicable to all, regardless of gender.
Aries (March 21 - April 19) Best Matches: Leo, Sagittarius, Libra Worst...
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He’s probably into you if your conversations on the phone end with a petty fight on who’s going to hang-up first. Sweet. :)
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He’s probably into you if he notices the small changes about your appearance. For example, a new haircut or new pedicure. Because guys don’t normally notice these things.
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Decode the Dude: His Footwear
Loafers or Leather Shoes. A guy who wears this type of footwear almost all the time are the clean-cut and serious type of guys. They are those type of guys that you can bring home to mommy. On a date, this type of guy would probably take you out for dinner at a classy restaurant or an afternoon at a coffee shop.
Sneakers. Guys who are sneakers are the boy-next-door types. They are easy going,...
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He’s probably not into you if he hasn’t called or texted you for three days after your first date.
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He’s probably into you if he’s always looking for an opportunity to be with you. For example, study sessions or volunteering to help you fix your PC. :)
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The Do's and Don't's of a First Date
Okay, so you’re going on a date with this guy for the first time and you’re so excited about it. But at the same time, you’re feeling nervous because so many things could go wrong. Don’t fret, dearies. I’m here to help you out. I’m here to tell you what-to-do and what-not-to-do on a first date.
Do wear something nice and suitable for the date. If it’s a...
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Flirting Basics
How you flirt should depend on the situation and on the personality of the guy. However, there are elements of flirting that are must’s in any kind of situation and on any type of guy. So here are those rules.
Eye contact. When flirting with someone, you must maintain eye contact at all times. Maintain eye contact but do not creep the guy out by staring at him with wide eyes. Here’s...
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The Art of Flirting
I see everything as a form of art. In my world, there is something I’d like to call “The Art of Flirting”. You see, flirting is not just something you do for the sake of doing it. Flirting takes communication skills, charisma, and a whole lot of guts. Like any other thing in this world, there is a right way and wrong way of doing it. And you, my dear readers, are going to...
