Boy-ology 101

Nov 02

Flirt Via SMS

It’s not always easy to mean what you say through text messages. But here’s the secret. You can always get your point across with just a simple one-liner text message. Wanna know how? Here are messages to flirt-text that guy you’re into. Of course, these are applicable when you know the guy personally beyond just being acquaintances. Yes, these days everything is possible with just one click or press of a finger. Even flirting. And here are some opener lines for text-flirting.

• What to text: “Hi. How are you?”
  What it tells him: Send this message to him after you’ve gone on your first date, following the two day rule. This will tell him that you are interested and that you’re actually looking forward to a second date. Or send this to him, out of the blue. This will tell him that he’s on your mind. If he texts you back on both situations, don’t reply right away. Wait for about an hour. Or at least fifteen minutes, if you really can’t help it.
• What to text: “Where you?”
  What it tells him: Send this to him when you’re looking to hang-out with him. More often than not, he will reply with his whereabouts followed by the same question directed to you. And if you play your cards right, you might find yourself meeting up with him later on.
• What to text: “What are you up to?”
  What it tells him: Okay, this sounds a little kinky but it gets the message straight, right? This tells him that you are thinking of him and that you care enough to know what his doing. This can also be an alternative text for him to invite you to hang-out. Depends on what follows this message.
• What to text: “Still up?”
  What it tells him: Send him this message late at night and when you’re up for a long conversation with him through text. The message itself sounds sexy. If he replies, then try to get personal. 

Oh, and just some reminders. Do not use text short-cuts too much. If you can, type the whole words. Don’t drunk-text him. And don’t text your friends about him while in the middle of a text-conversation with him. Simple and easy.

Oct 21

18.

He’s probably into you if he notices it whenever you’re feeling down, then says the funniest thing to make you laugh.

Anonymous asked: I'm dating this guy, we're not officially a couple but he has this bad boy reputation. He drinks and he smokes. It's not something that I'm used to. How do I deal with a bad boy?

Don’t try to change him from his bad boy ways. I don’t believe that one has to change for the person he loves. As long as he’s loyal and faithful, then you really shouldn’t worry about his bad boy ways. If you don’t like his vices, then you can compromise. Ask him to not smoke in front of you but don’t force him to stop.

That’s just my opinion. :)

Oct 04

17.

He’s probably not into you if he doesn’t call or text or IM you within the next twenty four hours after your date.

16.

He’s probably into you if he loves playing with your hair, while sitting in silence beside you.